Aohrodite Wounded - Support for Women sexually assaulted by male partners and educational resources for professionals
Javascript DHTML Drop Down Menu Powered by dhtml-menu-builder.com
"My body's not a foottball for you
My womb is not a football for you
"
~ Sinead O'Connor ~
Does your abuser share your computer?
Find out how to hide your online activity here.

In Crisis?
Find Emergency Hotlines here
Free Website Translator

SURVIVORS SHARE ACCOUNTS OF PARTNER RAPE IN LATE TEEN AND EARLY ADULT RELATIONSHIPS

Survivor's Name:

Emma

Survivor's Story: It's amazing that I'm still here after all I've been through. I first met my ex fiancÚ 2 years ago at a party when I was 18, he was funny at first and I liked that in a guy was really charming and so nice to me, my ex before him was a real hard man and was really nasty to me I guess I just liked the attention I got from this "nice" guy.

After a while of talking he asked me for my number, I didn't think anything of it so I gave him it, a few weeks after that I started going out with him things were great, told each other we loved each other, things were great I was the happiest girl in the world, high on life, he asked me to move in with him after a year of being together, got engaged as well, nothing could have brought me down until 2 weeks before my 20th birthday. We had an argument because I had to work late, he picked me up from work and took me home, when we got into house I went straight to toilet, he went into kitchen, I came out of the bathroom and went into kitchen to make myself something to eat, I turned to ask him what he wanted and as I did I felt this sharp force across my face, I fell to ground, he punched me!! All I can remember him saying was "Your cheating on me bitch!"

He walked out after that and left me in the house myself, I cleaned myself up and was left with a black eye. I couldn't believe he'd hit me, he wasn't like that I told myself over and over, he came back at 4 in mornin, 6 hours after he left! Jumped into bed beside me, wrapped his arms around me and kept whispering sorry, sorry. I turned round and kissed him saying it was ok, he promised me it wouldn't happen again, how naive was I?

He hit me 7 more times after that in a timeframe of 3 months, he promised me he would get help and that he would stop doing it after a while I just got used to it, it became a part of life, he started controlling me, telling me what to wear, how to do my hair, I was basically his Barbie doll he could do what he wanted with, the very last night of us bein together was the worst, yet another argument about my workin hours, I told him I'd had enough and was leavin him, he wasn't happy he grabbed me by my neck, and kicked me in stomach, I fell to the ground, he pulled down my jeans and my thong and forced himself inside me, the pain was excruciating, told me I wasn't leaving him ever, that I was his and would always be, he eventually finished then decided to spit in my face, I guess him doin that told me where I really was, beneath him!

I felt violated, didn't know what had happened to make him like this, I sat and cried most of night all I got from him was shut up and sleep bitch! I waited until he was leavin for work the next day and packed my bags and went back home to live with mum, I had to get myself a restrainin order against him as well, I may be single, but I'm alive and no one will do it to me again.
Submitted November 21 , 2010 3 : 38 am

Currently Viewing 52 - 52 of 63
View Previous Story | View Next Story | Share YOUR Story | Back to Aphrodite Wounded

 

 
©2002 - 2014
Copying of any part of this site without permission or appropriate acknowledgment is strictly prohibited