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Survivor's Story: It's amazing that I'm still here after all I've been through. I first met my ex fiancÚ 2 years ago at a party when I was 18, he was funny at first and I liked that in a guy was really charming and so nice to me, my ex before him was a real hard man and was really nasty to me I guess I just liked the attention I got from this "nice" guy.

After a while of talking he asked me for my number, I didn't think anything of it so I gave him it, a few weeks after that I started going out with him things were great, told each other we loved each other, things were great I was the happiest girl in the world, high on life, he asked me to move in with him after a year of being together, got engaged as well, nothing could have brought me down until 2 weeks before my 20th birthday. We had an argument because I had to work late, he picked me up from work and took me home, when we got into house I went straight to toilet, he went into kitchen, I came out of the bathroom and went into kitchen to make myself something to eat, I turned to ask him what he wanted and as I did I felt this sharp force across my face, I fell to ground, he punched me!! All I can remember him saying was "Your cheating on me bitch!"

He walked out after that and left me in the house myself, I cleaned myself up and was left with a black eye. I couldn't believe he'd hit me, he wasn't like that I told myself over and over, he came back at 4 in mornin, 6 hours after he left! Jumped into bed beside me, wrapped his arms around me and kept whispering sorry, sorry. I turned round and kissed him saying it was ok, he promised me it wouldn't happen again, how naive was I?

He hit me 7 more times after that in a timeframe of 3 months, he promised me he would get help and that he would stop doing it after a while I just got used to it, it became a part of life, he started controlling me, telling me what to wear, how to do my hair, I was basically his Barbie doll he could do what he wanted with, the very last night of us bein together was the worst, yet another argument about my workin hours, I told him I'd had enough and was leavin him, he wasn't happy he grabbed me by my neck, and kicked me in stomach, I fell to the ground, he pulled down my jeans and my thong and forced himself inside me, the pain was excruciating, told me I wasn't leaving him ever, that I was his and would always be, he eventually finished then decided to spit in my face, I guess him doin that told me where I really was, beneath him!

I felt violated, didn't know what had happened to make him like this, I sat and cried most of night all I got from him was shut up and sleep bitch! I waited until he was leavin for work the next day and packed my bags and went back home to live with mum, I had to get myself a restrainin order against him as well, I may be single, but I'm alive and no one will do it to me again.
Submitted November 21 , 2010 3 : 38 am

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