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SURVIVORS SHARE ACCOUNTS OF TEEN PARTNER RAPE

A NOTE
I get numerous accounts of rape from young teenage girls. Whether your story is about partner rape or not, I am incredibly concerned about the dreadful situations you face, and because the story forms don't contain email, I can't return contact. Some of you have never told anybody. Please, if you are a young teenage girl - whatever has happened, see this page and reach out to somebody for help. If you like, you can read my story about being an abused teenager here - please know that with the right support, the way you feel won't last forever xx


Survivor's Name:

Lindsey

Survivor's Story: I was introduced to J when I was 15 by one of my friends who happened to be his cousin. We hung out and hit it off really good as friends because he was into the exactly the same things and he was so funny. He was going away for for a college course for like two months, so we never hung out except for the one time. My friend/and his cousin, gave him my number and we started texting ALL of the time. He got a girlfriend during his time there and I quickly felt jealous. I turned sixteen by the time he got back and by then his girlfriend had broken up with him because he was moving and they would never see each other.

When he first called me up I think he did it for a rebound because we stopped texting for about two weeks (he said he lost his phone,but I think it was cause his old girlfriend was getting mad). The first two months of our relationship were tough because I moved out of my moms house and moved in with hi cousin who was also my friend and she liked to party so their was always a problem with J and boys. He decided it would be best that we move to a different city and foolishly I agreed.

The next five months of our relationship was mostly consisted of fighting and name calling on both sides, but nothing overly serious. We moved into a brand new place and that's when things took a turn for the worst. The first time he physically hurt me was when I got home from work one day and we got into a fight for god knows why and he locked me in the bathroom. I started screaming for help then he opened the door and started yelling at me then pushed me against the wall and was continuously pushing me so I pushed him back once, then he "restrained" me by grabbing my wrists so hard his finger nails dug into my skin and make it bleed and threw me to the ground and stepped on me so I couldn't move. Later that night he said sorry and I forgave him.

About two weeks later we got into a fight about how much I attract guys attention and that I'm a tease. He yelled at me shouting that i'm a slut, no one loves me not even my parents, and other mean names. I started getting a little too confident and called him a little bitch. J then grabbed me by the hair and drug me down the stairs then back up them and make me kiss his penis while saying he wasn't a little bitch and that i'm his bitch. He later then started slapping me every where on my body except for my face. I called him abusive once he started crying about how bad he felt and he just kept saying that he wasn't abusive because he didn't "Hit" me( meaning punch me in the face)and that I pushed his buttons to do it so I deserved it.

These fights were always because I pushed his buttons. One night when he came and got me from work he was being cranky about everything so I was being a bitch to him. When we got home he wanted me to help him with something and said "Can you fucking come here you dumb bitch", so I told him no and then he went crazy. He kicked me over and over when I was on the ground, slapped me every where and threw knives, books, and other items at me, and wouldn't stop yelling. Once he calmed down a little bit he told me to give him a hug and a kiss to show that i'm sorry and when I refused to do it because I was too scared he said "oh hunny, if you think your scared now keep disobeying me, its going to get worse". I was being cocky at the time because he was starting to stop hurting me and I told him to fuck off as he was walking away. He came running back into the room and ripped me off the bed then kicked me until I was crying then stood me up and started choking me with my feet off the ground until I stopped crying. I was starting to black out from him choking me when he finally let go of me and threw me back onto the bed. J informed me that if I made a single sound he was going to "beat the pride out of me". My cell phone was in the other room and my best guy friend C called and that set J off again so J came running back in the bedroom at beat me with the cellphone by throwing it at me as hard as he could until it broke. I was crying by now and like he told me he would if I made a sound he started punching me several times in the face and ribs. He kept grabbing me when I tried running away from him at hitting my head against the wall.

My neighbours heard the noise and called the police. The police walked in on him smashing my head against the wall saying cry now bitch. They took him away four days now and he got a peace bond put on him and tomorrow is when he gets his first hearing. I'm a lot more confident now because I know now people are here for me.
Submitted November 21 , 2010 5 : 07 am

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