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Would you like to see how sharing stories helps other survivors?
Click here to read some comments from my guestbook. If you are a past contributor, you deserve to see these nice comments :)
Here are stories from brave survivors of rape by husbands and boyfriends.
If you put your mouse over each woman's name in the left column, you'll see a drop-down box that specifies whether the story is about marital or other relationship rape, - this makes it easier for vistors to decide what they want to read.
Please be discerning as you read. Relating to others can be healing, but the stories are triggering. If you feel overwhelmed, you may need support. If you are triggered (go here for hotlines), have a friend hold you or you can join and ask for support at Pandora's Aquarium.
IMPORTANT: THESE STORIES REMAIN THE PROPERTY OF THE WRITERS AND MAY NOT BE COPIED OR USED IN ANY WAY
If you'd like to share your story too you can fill out the form below.
Note: While you can also share in your story about other rape or child sexual abuse, your story must contain sexual assault by an intimate partner in order to appear on this site. I say this because I do get stories that are not about partner rape in any way, and I really hate rejecting a survivor's story but diluting the objective of this site doesn't make sense. If your story is about different types of sexual assault, Stephanie at Over the Rainbow will be happy to accept it. You can submit it here.
Please read the following before submitting your story:
- Please fill out all the fields in the form except email, which is optional - You don't have to share your email address unless you want me to contact you.
- PLEASE be sure it's a safe email that your abuser has no access to.
- Use any name you like - full names aren't a good idea online.
- If the perpetrator of your assault was not convicted of the crime/s against you, that person's full name cannot legally appear on this site. First name or a psuedonym will do
- Please specify in the box provided whether you want the story to appear on this site. If you are just sharing it with me privately I will not make it available to anybody else.
- If you do want it put on the site but you change your mind later, you can email me any time to remove it. Your story is your property on loan to me
- Sharing your story isn't an English test, but you'll be doing me a huge favour if you spell-check and punctuate. Begin sentences with caps and end them with full stops. Try to have paragraphs instead of a big chunk of text - it makes easier reading
- You may find that writing your story is cathartic and rewarding - but some women do feel raw afterwards. That's quite normal -do give yourself a reward, and get support if you need it - either from a rape counsellor (go here), a good friend and/or Pandora's Aquarium, which is open 24/7 and you'll be very welcome.
- Your story or poem can be as short or as long as you like
- You will not be judged by me on anything you write - be as no holds-barred as you feel comfortable with, and swear your head off if you feel like it.
Thank you for your courage
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